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Positive Proof vs. Negative Stories

7/14/2020

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Journaling.

Mom had so many journals!

Many of us have.

To capture stories
Family history
Express self
Frustration
Dream

In some ways, Facebook has been that way.
We share our lives
How can we grow
Self-discover
Get lost in our own thoughts for who we want to create our lives.

But, like mom, we never finish a journal. We’ve never taken the time to have that daily introspection.

Then when we do, we start a new journal. Often it’s because we don’t know where we put the other one!

Soon, there’s a stack of journals with one or two entries. Or, what I’ve found over the years going through moms things, pieces of paper with notes on them.

About a memory she had
A family history story
A poem she liked.
Live a life worth telling a story about.

How do we write the story we want to share with our family?

How do we change the story we’ve been repeating over and over that doesn’t serve us?

How do we go from stuck to sustainable?

How do we eliminate our limits so that we can level up, move forward and experience positive proof instead of negative stories?

Next Monday we start our Nourish Your Purpose Now Self-Discovery group.

A deep dive into eliminating your limits
Removing road blocks
Emotional release
Vision creation
Courage
Strength

If you want to change the story you’ve been telling yourself, send me a message if you’re in.
We begin Monday July 20th.

Nourish your purpose now,
Rebecca

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Why are we afraid to fail?

7/13/2020

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Today I shared with my private Facebook group how our past influences and experiences shape our unconscious mind and how we react to events that are happening in our lives today.
 
Take weight loss for example:
 
If you’ve ever tried to lose weight, chances are you’ve tried to do it more than once.
Chances are you’ve “failed” more than once.
Attempt after attempt a little piece of each one of those experiences is building in the back of your mind telling you that it’ll never work.
No matter how hard you “try,” you know it won’t work and revert back to your old habits.
 
We continue to get overwhelmed, stressed, depressed, confused, hopeless and angry.
 
Insert anything you’ve tried and “failed” at: finances, relationships, career, etc.
 
You didn’t fail.
You’re not broken.

If failing is nothing more than a "learning opportunity," then why are we afraid to fail?
  
If you go looking for the negative in something or someone, you will find it.
We will always have that Bound Nature energy coming into our lives. The key is to learn how to flow through it effortless when it arises.
 
To TRUST the process
 
The story you tell is the truth you know.
 
I appreciate you listening to me ramble and share some light.
 
If you want to change the story you keep telling yourself, I have a special announcement tomorrow. Stay tuned….

Nourish your purpose now,
Rebecca

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The Story You Tell is the Truth You Know

7/10/2020

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Yesterday, I shared with you a couple of "life hacks" that have guided me into the direction that I envisioned.

Of course having that vision is #1
Followed by trusting the process.
Committing to today to keep you on track.

I'd like to share two more:
  • Do what you can.
  • Change the narrative in your head.


When this injury of mine decided to be here longer than expected, I went through a patch of deep sadness.

Maybe even some mild depression.

I’ve always tried to be hopeful and positive with any situation, but the longer the injury persisted, the more I started to question if I was ever going to be “myself” again.

My identity was wrapped up in what I could do physically. I was proud of how strong I was.

Having a little gym of weights that I can’t even use was frustrating.

But, I had to be my own client for a moment.

I had to change the narrative and conversation in my head about what I couldn’t do, to focusing on everything else I COULD do. Because the story we tell ourselves is the truth you know.
  • Having the vision of healing and being strong again is always at the top of my mind.
  • Trusting the process of my continued therapy and that we ARE making progress.
  • Committing to today what I CAN do so that the first two are never far from my mind.
  • Do what you can.
  • Change the narrative in your mind.


Nourish your purpose now,

Rebecca
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What has paved the trail of any goal I set

7/9/2020

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I wanted to share a couple of things I shared on my call last night that have guided the direction of the way things have unfolded for me.

I’ve shared a lot of questions this week that I struggled with for several years. There is still so much to my story but the questions are similar with each adversity that has presented itself. I believe there is a lesson and opportunity when we’re faced with something major in our lives.

How we react, respond and grow from it is where I find the unexpected magic happens.

For instance:
When I sat down in Telluride, October 2017, to visualize where I wanted my life to go, to move forward, to let go of, I received a piece of advice from a dear friend and coach “put it out into the universe and it will unfold for you.”

So I did.

I planned out my 2-3 vision of what I wanted my life to look like.

What I was doing
Where I was spending my time
What I was feeling
What I was doing with my family
Where were we traveling
What our house looked like

I got deep into that vision and after I wrote it down, I kept it nearby to look at, adjust if needed and keep it in the forefront of my mind.

My 2-3 year vision started to unfold within 6 months.

Imaging our outcome and trusting the process is monumental, not only in our physical body, but in our mental, emotional and spiritual body as well.

Create a vision
Imagine the outcome
Trust the process

If this resonates with you, send me a DM, let’s chat.

Nourish your purpose now,
Rebecca
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My Pivotal Moments

7/8/2020

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The pivotal point for me to even start thinking about a change for myself was when my mom died.

When I began the quest of health and wellness, it was for my mom.

She was diabetic.

She was overweight.

What many people don’t know is, when I was a kid, my mom and I went to the 4th of July parade where we lived in Monument, Colorado. When we got out of the VW bus that her friend drove, blood had covered mom’s seat. She had hemorrhaged. She was carried off by ambulance and I stayed with close friends for a week.

The vision I saw at the young age of 6 was something that could not be unseen.

It also gave me the greatest fear – losing my mom. Because of that fear, I remember crying myself to sleep many nights, even in my teens.

As I got older, everything I did, was to help her in any way possible. Just so we wouldn’t lose her.

When she had her stroke, it was the hardest decision to make to let her go.

Imagine all my life trying to help her and then I couldn’t.

My passion for everything I was doing died along with her.

I didn’t care to keep my studio open. I didn’t have any desire to keep doing what I was doing.

I felt lost.

Defeated.

Devastated.

F@*k it.

But still, I kept going.

Then when we found out we were pregnant with Emma, quiet whispers kept creeping in.

Let the studio go.

Be PRESENT with the family – with myself.

I kept on for another couple of years but these quiet whispers were getting louder and louder.

How can I slow this all down?
How can I create simplicity in my life?
Life is way too precious, I want to soak in every moment with my kiddos
How can I turn off my brain going a million miles an hour of everything I HAVE to do so that I can be PRESENT?
How am I going to make this all work if I close down my studio?
How do I move FORWARD without it feeling like life is speeding up?

Have you ever felt like this? This mental tug-of-war?

Send me a message if so because I know exactly how that all feels.

Those are the questions we’ll be looking at during our Nourish Your Purpose Now lesson THIS evening.

TONIGHT July 8
6pm (MTN)
Zoom ID – 475 696 7903
Password – summit
Would be honored if you joined me

Nourish your purpose now,
Rebecca
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Bruce Lee Moments

7/7/2020

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I’ve shared this before and it’s from one of those aha moments we have when we finally “get it.” My coach calls them Bruce Lee moments. They don’t necessarily come from Bruce Lee, but they still create an impact in our lives to help us move forward.

Here is an example of a Bruce Lee quote that has really resonated with me “I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times.”
 
If you know me, you know one of my mantras is “keep it simple, master the basics.”
But I wasn’t always this way. I used to pride myself in taking on so many tasks, challenges, clients, classes, certifications, etc.

Between full-time work, full-time school, getting married, having kiddos, running a business, figure competitions, Spartan races, even a triathlon, and everything in between, I was ALL IN!!
 
I was THE BEST (in my opinion of course, hence the perfectionism mentality I talked about yesterday) at multi-tasking! What happened? TOTAL BURNOUT. It was only a matter of time for me to be running on all cylinders for so long that this would happen.
 
Something else happened. When the events ended, the challenges ended, the ALL IN training ended. I could quickly see how when so many people finish a challenge, they revert back to their old habits. There was a feeling of “now what?” It was always go, go, go, go and wondering if there was going to be a time to just BE.
 
Once on got CLEAR and FOCUSED on what I wanted to achieve for my LIFE, then I could work backwards and narrow things down to fit my lifestyle, family, goals and really live life by design. It’s been so refreshing to be able to wake up and enjoy without having worry, anxiety, stress and seriousness about everything!
 
But I also have to tell you, even when things started to unfold like I wanted, I went through a grieving process of what my life WAS like, of WHO I was.

Realizing that my identity was wrapped up in the physical things my body could do and caught up on what I couldn’t do due to a chronic injury.
 
How do you get peace of mind from something like that?
How do you move away from the constant grind?
How do you find simplicity in the ever chaotic and busy world?
How do I fit it all in?
What if I don’t get it right or it isn’t perfect?
 
Does any of this relate to you?
Send me a message if it does.

Those are the questions we’ll be looking at during our Nourish Your Purpose Now lesson tomorrow evening.

Wednesday July 8
6pm (MTN)
Zoom ID – 475 696 7903

Would be honored if you joined me.

Nourish your purpose now,

Rebecca
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Are you setting the right expectations for your health and wellness?

7/6/2020

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If you’re like the rest of us you’ve likely tried to change everything all at once. What happens?
 
It doesn’t work!! Something gives usually within the first week or second week and we either give up all together or get so mad at ourselves we feel inadequate, like a failure or that this is NEVER going to work because we can’t get it perfectly, every single time.  
 
Our mindset goes from excited and ready to overwhelm, stress, anxiety, frustration and anger.
 
Experts tend to define perfectionism as “a combination of excessively high personal standards are overly critical self-evaluations.”

49 percent of women said their stress has increased over the past five years. 92 percent of working moms and 89 percent of stay-at-home mothers felt overwhelmed by work, home and parenting responsibilities, mostly due to perfectionism.

Anxiety and depression are only some of the mental health problems that specialists have repeatedly linked with perfectionism. 

According to Wikipedia, perfectionism is a risk factor for obsessive compulsive disorder, obsessive compulsive personality disorder, eating disorders, social anxiety, social phobia, body dysmorphic disorder, workaholism, self-harm, substance abuse, and clinical depression as well as physical problems like chronic stress, and heart disease.

Wow.

Can we just step back and really let that sink in a moment?

Does any of this relate to you?

Send me a message if it does.

I always talk about overwhelm, creating a balanced life and simplicity but having that connection to perfectionism really shines a light on why we’re always stuck in this cycle, doesn’t it?

Where does this perfectionism come from and why is it getting in the way of living our best life?

How do you learn to become more calm and present in a busy and chaotic world?

How can you better harness the power of your inner self to create the life you want?

Those are the questions we’ll be looking at during our Nourish Your Purpose Now lesson Wednesday evening.

Wednesday July 8
6pm (MTN)
Zoom ID – 475 696 7903

Would be honored if you joined me.

Nourish your purpose now,
Rebecca
 

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Simplify to create change

6/20/2020

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I’m reminded of an event from one year ago today. We had just finished a quick trip to Vegas to see Aerosmith then detoured to the Grand Canyon before heading home.

Little did we know, one year later we wouldn’t have that opportunity.

But we have a different opportunity.

Most of us are slowly emerging from our homes to stores, restaurants and starting to return back to our place of employment, offices, etc.

Some of the conversations that I’ve been having with people are those of concern and frustration getting back their normal routine after experiencing the freedom being able to work from home.

I get it. I really do.

We know from experience that to make drastic and lasting change, you need to simplify.

COVID has taught us that. It taught us to simplify quickly.
So now we are thinking what can we do to keep that feeling?

That experience.

That freedom.

Keep the simplest tasks a priority and keep them consistent.
So you need to ask yourself, what are the simplest tasks for you?

Maybe it’s:

🦋Getting up 15-30 minutes earlier to get some movement in.
🦋Setting out your workout clothes the night before
🦋Packing your lunch the night before
🦋Taking a few minutes to sit quietly, journal, visualize your outcome on your intentions. Maybe take that outside and listen to the nature.

We’ve learned that we can pivot and make things work during this time.

We’ve learned what we want to keep in our lives

We’ve learned what we don’t want to keep in our lives.

Now that we’ve had that awakening, it’s time to make some decisions.

If you get off track or feel overwhelmed, or if you catch yourself rushing, don't panic.

Simply pause.

Relax.

Reboot.

And go back to keeping it simple and mastering the basics.

If this resonates with you and you'd like to hop on a Discovery call, shoot me a message and let's chat!

Nourish your purpose now,
Rebecca

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Habits can make or break us...

6/9/2020

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“There’s no better way to get your mind right than waking up before daybreak and clanking some iron, stretching the muscles, elevated the heart rate, and changing the physiology of the body.” – Todd Durkin, Get Your Mind Right.

How do we become a person of routine?

Having a routine is another way of saying that you’ve established certain customs or patterns of behavior, which are better known as habits. Everybody has habits whether they know them or not.

Do we tend to stay up late, sleep in, then rush off to work? Only to find, at the end of the day, we’re too tired from the drive home and its dinner then family and back to bed?

Or maybe in our free time we spend it scrolling on social media, playing a game on the phone or watching Netflix…

How can we flip the switch to creating habits that are going to get us to our goals?

To help us lead a healthy life.

To help us stay on the right track.

I’m going to share a few that my mentor and Coach Todd has outlined in his book:
  1. Make a commitment, and when you do, stick to it. So many of us go through life without committing to anything. We take life as it comes. Or we’re too busy to do anything beyond the basics that I described above.
  2. Be a thermostat, not a thermometer. A thermometer has the single purpose of telling you the temperature of the environment. It it’s hot or freezing outside, the thermometer will tell you if it’s in the 90’s or freezing. A thermostat, regulates the environment. It’s you who decides how hot or how cold, and you can control the temperature. Constantly monitor your surrounding and making adjustments. Influence your surroundings instead of letting them influence you.
  3. Be prepared to do things people never see. Those who set their alarms at 4:30am, splash water on their face and head out to exercise. Success is rooted in unseen, uncelebrated sacrifices. But talk to those who get up early to exercise, and they will tell you that the results speak for themselves. They get their minds right because they decided they would do something to improve their lives and acted upon those commitments.
  4. Remind yourself that it takes time to establish new habits. I’m not really a believer in it takes 21 days to create a habit. As I’ve mentioned before, change itself is a skill. Sometime we need to prepare for the preparation of even thinking about change. Sometimes it’s a lightbulb moment and we can start right away. Other times, it takes some more convincing of ourselves that we can even be successful with it.
  5. Don’t turn your phone on right after you wake up. That time is so precious to your morning routine and belongs to your body, mind and soul.
  6. Start your day by taking ten to twenty minutes to nurture your soul. This could be quite meditation, prayer and/or journaling.
  7. Journal to quiet your mind and establish your goals. This is not a to-do list. This talking to yourself in a language that is positive, visualizing what you see ahead. Once I started doing this every day, things started to unfold and open up more and more.
  8. When you’re done nurturing your soul, get a move on. Despite what you may think, a quick 20-30 is all you need to get the blood pumping, the feel good hormones firing and setting the tone for the day. There are so many things you can do at home with just body weight or minimal equipment, not to mention heading out for a quick walk.
  9. Eat a healthy breakfast. I won’t get into specifics here but coffee, bagels and donuts won’t cut it.
  10. Create a PM routine. Your morning routine will only be successful if you are prepared the night before. Review your journal, power down the electronics, read something inspirational, leave your phone in the kitchen at night (get a cheap old fashioned alarm clock if you need to), get your clothes ready, maybe even prep your lunch for the next day, and don’t hit that snooze button!
 
I hope these tips help you establish a routine to eliminate your limits, overwhelm and frustration and on the road to a healthy and balanced life!
Let me know if this resonated with you or if you need to set up a discovery call, send me a message and let’s chat!

Nourish your purpose now,
Rebecca
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Peeling back the layers...

6/5/2020

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Working in the fitness industry for over 15 years, I can say that one of the biggest mental hurdles holding people back from real success is a limiting belief system.

Maybe it was the way you were raised, or the people surrounding you, or a lack of self-confidence, or even fear. If you nurture limiting beliefs, they’ll rule your behavior and your life.

To attack your limiting belief systems, realize that you must work on strengthening your mindset first.

If your mental, emotional, and spiritual side (your inner self) is out of shape, you’ll never find the success in life you hope to find – no matter how hard you work your body.

Most people won’t take the time to do this and instead will just do the training program and nutrition tips looking for the “answer.”

These same people will get only a few weeks into the program and lose motivation, and they will be destined to fail because they never took the time to examine WHY they wanted to change in the first place and, more important, what they were willing to do to achieve that change.

You are looking for something.

Is it a feeling you’re after? Is it a look you want?

Whatever it is, it is within you.

Start to peel back the layers to get to who you really want to become.
Set aside some alone time in the next day or two to write and let your soul sing. Without considering whether it’s realistic, write down what you absolutely want to achieve during this journey.

No limits! Be very specific.

Define what becoming fit means to YOU. Mentally, physically and spiritually fit.
For some it may mean moving without pain, having enough energy to play with the grand kids, or even to get through a day without crashing on the couch afterwards.
Perhaps it is to get through the day without feeling the overwhelm of everything you need to do

...to live the life you desire

...to have peace, simplicity and balance

Spend some time with it and be true to yourself.

Shoot me a message if you need help mapping this out!

Nourish your purpose now,

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